The Latin term imago Dei is one that I first heard in a college Bible study. I remember sprawling on the floor of our dorm lobby, rolling the funny words around in my mouth.

Imago Dei. Image of God.

That phrase has meant a lot to me over the years. It has helped me understand my value as a child created in the image of God, and recently, it has helped me to understand more deeply the idea of dignity. Because truly believing that every human, every man, woman and child from every nation, is created in the image of God, shifts how we think about dignity and the value of life.

It shapes how I think about the children I sponsor, too. Denys, Bilha, Vitoria, Nardos and Natacha, were all created in the image of God. What does that mean for me as their sponsor?

For an organisation that works in 25 developing countries, each with its own cultures, languages and customs, it is so important to see the Imago Dei in every child we work with. Simply put, we must always make sure we are honouring a child’s dignity.

body-1.jpgTwo girls from Compassion Project.


Can you write a blog about child dignity?

When Compassion’s blog editor, Willow, asked me that question, of course, I said yes. But immediately I knew what I needed to write about. And I didn’t want to. I didn’t want to share a moment with you that I’m not proud of.

But I hope you can learn from my mistakes as you think about what child dignity means for you.

On every trip, I revelled in experiencing new cultures and playing with adorable kids. Everywhere I went I had a camera in my hand and my notebook in my pocket.

I took selfies with tons of kids. Kids that I connected with. But also kids that were just cute. That’s what happened on a trip to Bolivia. I smiled eagerly at a little girl, pointed to my camera and then to her. I ignored her confused look and started snapping away. Later, I looked at those photos and saw a look of what could have been fear on her face.

And as I stared at that photo, I felt a deep, deep conviction. I was treating those children as props.

It makes my stomach hurt even now to think about. And from that moment on, I made a promise, to myself and to the hundreds of children I would meet on future trips.
 

body-2.jpgChild from Compassion Project.


I would not take a single picture with another child whose name and story I did not know. While there’s nothing wrong with taking photos to help remember a one-of-a-kind trip to meet sponsored children, my conviction had to do more with my intentions and motivations. It is not my job as a writer at Compassion to take pictures with cute kids from around the world. It is my job to listen to their stories and gently carry those stories home to share with those who need to hear them.

But even more than that, it is not my job as a Compassion sponsor to “rescue” poor little children. It is my job to help the helpers, to come alongside their parents, tutors and Compassion staff who are doing the hard work.

It is not my job to have a rich, shared correspondence with a child in poverty. It is my job to write letters of hope and encouragement even if the only response I get is the same picture of a hand-drawn ball 10 times in a row.

It is not my job to be my sponsored child’s family. Most Compassion-assisted children have loving, devoted caregivers, siblings, aunts, and uncles. My job is to be a part of their family, a faraway friend who is helping to ease the burden.

It is a joy and a privilege to be a part of my Compassion children’s lives. And my life is so much richer having them in my life.

They are not props—they are real children with real stories and real families.
 

body-3.jpgChild & Compassion Worker. 

Helping the Helpers

In an honest moment, I think at times I have elevated my role in my sponsored children’s lives. I have lost sight of the fact that their lives are filled with people created in the image of God, who are called to love and serve in ways that are different than mine.

As a sponsor, I am helping to equip local, indigenous churches, run by people who live in the communities and know the unique needs of the people who live there. These are people who know what dignity looks like in their cultures. Who understand the language of dignity among the children they serve.


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