Meet Cres and Sheryl.

They are a vibrant married couple from a community north of Manila, Philippines. They are parents to three young children—Caleb, Sofia and Cian. Cres runs a small printing press business from home, and Sheryl works as a Child Development Worker at the local Compassion centre. Their life might seem quite typical from the outside—but their love story is anything but.

“We could go on a cruise together, buy the most expensive cars, live in the biggest house, but I would not enjoy any of those things. I would only enjoy her,” says Cres.

The story of these lovebirds started when they were just eight and nine years old—both sponsored children raised in impoverished families.


Puppy love

“I remember I was only eight-years-old when Cres first spoke to me during one of our activities at the Compassion centre,” Sheryl says. “We were on our way to the church for worship. Cres came near and pointed to my brown eyes. He said, “Are your eyes real?” I will never forget his confidence in coming up to me like that.”

body2-(1).jpgChildren at a Compassion International Centre. 

That first interaction sparked the beginning of their playful relationship.

“He would say out loud, ‘I know you have a crush on me. You can’t hide it for long,’” Sheryl laughs. “He’s never stopped teasing me and telling me jokes.”

As the years went on, so did Cres and Sheryl’s light-hearted friendship. They attended youth camps, music conferences and church activities together. They also both maintained good relationships with their sponsors. But as they grew into teenagers, Sheryl’s life took a bit of a turn.


Entangled with gangs

Growing up in a gang-heavy community, Sheryl succumbed to the pressures of the culture around her. “Sheryl doesn’t look like it now, but yes, my wife used to be a gangster,” Cres says.

body1-(1).jpgSheryl, teaching at the local Compassion centre where she and Cres first met.

“I started my own gang of female teenagers. We terrorised other teenagers and asked them for money. We also learned to smoke and get drunk. I was not proud of that particular time in my life, especially considering that on Saturdays I would go to the Compassion centre and pretend that I was a proper, young Christian woman,” says Sheryl.

But no matter what trouble Sheryl found herself in, Cres was never far behind. “She wasn’t my girlfriend then, but I had to make sure she didn’t go astray for long. So, I visited her at home and regularly invited her to church. Little by little she turned away from her bad deeds and came back to serving God.”


First comes love, then comes mentorship

Eventually, the couple’s endearing and consistent friendship budded into a romantic relationship.

body3-(1).jpgCres and Sheryl with their kids Caleb, Sofia and Cian.

Engaged for eight years, the childhood sweethearts eventually married and had three beautiful children. Today, they are using their unique love story to show others what a healthy relationship looks like.

“Ours is what you can call a ‘Compassion love story’, and we share our story with young people whenever given the chance. We want to inspire the youth and show them that a godly relationship is possible,” he says.

They have a passion for connecting with youth and sharing with others what God has taught them about healthy relationships in their years of being together.


Cres and Sheryl’s relationship tips

“First, of course, is to be grounded in faith together. It’s not enough for just the husband or the wife to be close to God, but both, so that when one feels down, the other can provide strength and inspiration,” says Cres.

body4-(1).jpgCres and Sheryl.

“Second, is respect. The key is that we respected each other. We were good friends at the Compassion centre, but we had other friends at church and we never stopped each other from spending time with our friends,” says Sheryl.

And third, not surprisingly for this couple, is fun and laughter.

“Couples should learn to have fun and just enjoy each other. I love that I can just chill in life because of my faith in God. I feel I am relaxed and just like having fun, especially when I’m with my wife and kids. I tell my wife I don’t just enjoy being with her, I enjoy her. 

Cres and Sheryl’s love story remains a cherished example to the community around them of what a true godly relationship looks like—full of love, respect, laughter and most importantly, Christ.

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